Missionary

The new model is subtractive: You take away my comfort. You take away my agenda. You take away my assumption that I am the hero of this story.

A missionary is not someone who brings something to a community, but someone who is willing to have something taken away .

For many of us, it’s a specific, grainy snapshot from a history book: a stoic figure in a starched collar, standing awkwardly next to a thatched hut, holding a leather-bound Bible in one hand and perhaps a pocket watch in the other. There’s often a pith helmet involved. The vibe is colonialism, conversion, and cultural superiority. Missionary

Because of this, the word carries baggage. In many global south communities, "missionary" is still a slur, shorthand for religious imperialism.

We have to let go of the idea that being a missionary is about changing people, and embrace the idea that it is about accompanying people. It is not a title of honor; it is a posture of humility. The new model is subtractive: You take away my comfort

The pith helmet is gone. The pocket watch is broken. What remains is the quiet, terrifying, glorious call to simply show up and love.

That core is still beautiful. It is the doctor who leaves a comfortable city practice to treat river blindness in a remote village. It is the teacher who learns a difficult language just to read stories to children who have never held a book. It is the engineer who digs wells not for a contract, but for the quiet joy of clean water. A missionary is not someone who brings something

Let’s be honest. When you hear the word “Missionary,” what image pops into your head?